Online dating sites - evil or necessity?

The first opinion. There are lovely, with highly vulnerable soul and psyche people on dating sites. The opinion of the latter. Dating site is a bunch of inadequate perverts, maniacs, wealthy man, whores, gigolos, blue stockings and boring pimply adolescents who are asked to send a photo to satisfy their curiosity.

Homo sapiens understand that none of the above statements cannot be considered as ‘correct’ by definition, because dating sites are created by people for people, and nothing human is alien to them. In other words, at a party in the club and on the street or in a crowded bus, there are among us both normal people and boors, wench, shy bespectacled and beautiful, romantically-minded, but narrow-minded girls.

Each pursues his own goal. Of course, there are individuals who come to the site accidentally, by compulsion or in a state of short-term amnesia. Their profiles hanging alone in the back rows and quietly rot under a flurry of more recent profiles. Let's start with the fact that every newcomer has the opportunity not only to clearly defined his own parameters, but also specify the target in the presence of this particular resource.

Experience tells us that on the other side sit the same real person as you. Usually lonely, sometimes disillusioned with former relationship, looking for adventure or seeking to pour out his heart to a stranger and always doubting.

Someone writes with errors, someone often distracted by work or housework, while others stubbornly silent, responding to your winks and "greetings" just a few days later. Sometimes tied a conversation, and you looked to peer into the chat window, in trembling anticipation of another replica of your interlocutor. It happens that familiarity did not catch on, and on your detailed questions you get monosyllabic answers, not in a position to continue the conversation.

The main mistake of all, without exception, users of such resources is that all of us (myself included) for some reason forget that the site - it is not a panacea, not a cure for boredom, it's just a bridge to communicate. So after all - evil or necessity? Neither one nor the other.

Is it necessary to use dating sites, where the range of your communication is inexorably shrinking with each passing year? The question, I suppose, is rhetorical.