From Online Dating To Dating In Real Life

Don't know how to get a date? You are kind of pen-friends for about a year and you still can't understand whether it's time to meet in real life, finally, or not?

You don't want to ask the partner too soon, you are in despair and you are afraid to push the person away? Read this. It's really important to read these signs, before you ask your beloved out. Pay attention to these clues:

1- The person asks whether you have plans

If the person suddenly starts to ask you whether you have plans for the days off or evening and suggest to communicate via the phone or e-mail, then he/she obviously has plans about you. This is a direct hint. So if you are in, than grab the opportunity. If this happens, don't waste the time beating around the bush.
What to do: just say something like "I don't have actually anything planned at the moment. I was thinking of going somewhere out on Sunday. What about you? Do you have some plans?" But when he/she suddenly answers "Yes, I have plans," fastly react like, "So bad! I wanted ask you to go out with me for a cup of coffe afterwards."

2- Your friend asks whether there are some nice nightclubs close to your place

If your potential partner asks you whether there are some hot hightclubs next to you, then obviously he/she wants to visit it...with you. Now switch on the imagination and think where you would like to spend your first meet. And answer something like "I know a great club called ***, I often visit it some times per month. It's downtown, and quite swanky. Here the beautiful guys go to play. Wednesday is the greatest night to go. Actually, I was thinking to go there this week." Leave it and follow the reaction.

On the response like "Sounds great, let's meet there," answer with, "If you want to go, I would like to take you. Besides, I know my way around downtown good enough."

3- He talks about a films he/she wants to see

Don't wast time, probably, your partner wants to see this movie with you? Find out what film are the most interesting for both of you and suggest to go out together.

4- The person asks you how far you live from him/her

This is a direct clue, that the person is ready to meet you in real life. What to do: if the person lives far from you, suggest to make the trip to have this first date. Then find that "silver thread" to get important information you need. For sample, find out his/her favorit restaurant. If he/she likes French food, ask about favorit dishes and tell that one day you'd like to try it with him/her. But one more rule: don't sound too excited. You should sound more interested than excited.

There we have it. Four common clues that will help you to change your life and to develop your relationship. Make this final step from online to real communication. It's time to act!