I am a fun-hearted guy who is looking for an intelligent, happy, caring wife. I am looking for a beautiful Muslima who uses Islam is her guide to daily life. She doesn’t have to wear Hijab, but must have self respect in how she carries herself. I want to meet a confident Muslima who is secure enough not to have to flaunt her beauty to the world, but impresses others with her outlook, personality, and intelligence. I don’t want to control or be controlled; I want my partner and I to lead each other by example, becoming stronger in our Faith day by day. I am a jokester, a musician, a thinker, and an all-round optimistic guy, and it takes a lot to bring me down. I love comparative religion, the ocean, movies about personal struggle and triumph, modern architecture and design, playing music, and visiting my family and friends all over the US. I am meticulous in designing and maintaining my house, doing my own laundry and cleaning – i.e. I am a neat freak! I am NOT a die-hard TV sports guy, nor can I stand reality/MTV– I would rather watch Animal Planet, History, Discovery, CNN, or do something more constructive or creative with my time. I like to dress up and look good when appropriate, but I am definitely not a Gold Rolex n Gucci guy. I think I look about 5 yrs younger than I am, because my patients still ask me when I graduated from school (I try to take that as a complement.
I pray 5 times a day as best I can, fast during Ramadan, pay my Zakat, respect my parents, and I want to complete my Deen with marriage. I use true Islam as my guide for everything I do, right or wrong; it is the best check and balance system for keeping on the right path. I am looking forward to having many children as well, girls or boys, Inshallah! I would like you to respect my personal time and space as I will yours, and I feel trust, communication, and freedom of choice are the key to a successful marriage. Guilt and pressure are the worst motivators and only lead to resentment. I am by no means perfect, but I don’t think you will be disappointed if you are looking seriously for a life partner who will make you laugh, motivate you, provide for you, and that you would be proud of on your arm walking into a crowd or taking home to meet your friends and family. I will send pics if we are compatible, and please remember, I am not interested in wasting time. I hope family involvement will be a positive influence on our marriage choice as well, Inshallah.
Date: 08 Nov 2009